"you know, the wedding."
i've developed a visceral, stock answer when people ask me any of the following questions:

"what have you been up to?"

"so what's going on?"

"how are things?"

"what time is it?"

you know..... the wedding. the vah-deeng, for the love of god.

this is where Post Wedding Shock is born. same with first-year-of-marriage babies. mere days after the honeymoon and the thank-you notes go out, there's suddenly nothing to plan. nothing to obsess about. nothing to spend your days on message boards discussing.

i can assure you i will be happy when it's all over and i'm erik's wife. but if i start to have weekly formal dinner parties, don't be suprised.

oh, and to the person who found my weblog by searching for "bridal porn," i hope i didn't disappoint.